Dating rules
Let us discuss a few dating rules. These rules are not cast in stone, of course, but you can always be beneficial. The rules are particularly interesting for those new to the dating world and will help you to survive the first date.1. Let's take it easy, no complicated arrangements. That means no dinner by candlelight, no flowers, no excessive door stopping and no gloomy conversations about the future. Just be two people who have fun together. No more, no less.
2. Hold a back door open. This is especially important if you meet someone you have met online. Plan your first date ever so that you can leave it at any time if it runs quite poorly. Meet for a drink or a coffee and prepare it before even so, that the other person knows that you have only one hour to the next appointment. Such "events" can then still "magically" disappear when you get along well.
3. Keep your schedule flexible. One of the biggest mistakes in newcomers who plan the appointment is to take exactly. A date is not a school outing. You do not know at any moment what is happening in the next moment. Relax, let yourself drift and do not plan too much. You can get quiet before a few thoughts, but let then run the evening, as he runs.
4. Do not go to the movies. Films not really suitable for first appointments. They are not really bad. If you are extremely shy, it may well be beneficial to spend two hours by someone without having to talk. However, I would refrain at the first meeting if possible, from the cinema.
5. No dinner the first time. The same as with the cinema, but for another reason. Ironically, many people believe, the first meeting should be a movie and dinner. That's just awful! Food is too serious and too personal. With someone to eat the one hardly knows, is unpleasant. Raise the for later. At the first appointment, you should rather go for a drink.
6. Do not overdo it with your wardrobe! Appointments should not be as serious, but fun. A person's clothing has a major influence on their personality. If someone is very badly dressed, he usually has no self-confidence. Extremely well-dressed people often appear arrogant. Pull just reasonable, This means relaxed, laid-back, but appealing.
7. Humor, humor, humor! The importance of humor on a date can not be overemphasized. People like to spend time with other people who make them laugh. You can look completely average. If you have a cheerful nature, you will be more popular than any supermodel.
8. No talks about or the ex, okay?
9. No awards, please! Do not come to your appointment with an arsenal of expressive sayings that you have read in some stupid magazine. Something is always lame and transparent. Just relax and be just as you are. If you do not like the other for the sake of your own, then so be it and you must not disappear your time.
10. Do not use the name of the other. People like to hear their own name. So instead of saying: "You're quite a daredevil," they say rather: "So Kathrin, you're quite a daredevil." You must not exaggerate, however. When I myself started with the dating, a girl once told me she found me strange, because I have constantly told your name. That was embarrassing! :)
11. Building on the others. Never pull down him or her. This can be complicated. You should not rely on the others by einschleimen itself. For that, you can expect no respect. Enter your Opposite just felt to be a great person. The best way to achieve this is to give him or her, "I am here with you." Because you are great, the other is also great, because he or she is with you.
12. No, it passed other girls or guys!
13. Treat waiters and bartenders, even if you believe these are overpaid or easily replaceable (which is also true) generous. The way you treat people in the service industry, says a lot about you as a person. Give good gratuities, be friendly. Do not expect too much of them and do not treat them dismissively.
14. Do not complain. Point. Complain about absolutely nothing. People who complain are not particularly popular. The only permissible exception is to complain about someone else: "What your friend has made, was not fair to you."
15. Do not expect anything. The fact that someone agreed with you is not an invitation to sex. The other person owes you nothing and vice versa. Just enjoy the moment. That is enough.
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